ENHANCING YOUR SOCIAL ABILITY BEGINS WITH AWARENESS
Emotional awareness provides the starting point for both self awareness and awareness of others. The perspective however is on attending to (and being mindful) others,
The first step in communicating is being mindfully present, allowing you to communicate your agenda and needs in a way that is likely to be received by the other.
IDENTIFY YOUR STYLE
And respect who you are. This does not mean that you can't modify your behavior and improve interaction . But self respect and respect for others makes this more authentic, and allows you to act in accordance with your values.
OUTCOMES BASED INTERACTION
Feelings drive action, but emotionally driven action which has a short term focus is ineffective. Take outcomes based parenting from Topic 1 as the basis, and you will see that interaction requires an understanding of the intent or foundation of the relationship. This then allows you to determine how to engage for success.
BARRIERS TO SUCCESS.
Emotions that undermine are the core cause of failure. Your own negative feelings can cause you to withdraw or abandon a relationship or interaction, or act in a way that is aversive . Recognizing these blocks is key, and also allows you to recognize where others emotions are driving unsuccessful behaviors.
Whether as a leader in business, a teacher, parent or partner, inspired leadership looks to energize, and support others to act in ways that is mutually beneficial.
Knowledge, opportunity, support. The Self-Defined and Inner-Apps range of products and services are all built on the principals of providing information, opportunity to reflect and try, and support in the form of Centors and Group programs.
Mindful of other and in the moment may sound simple, but try focus on a single object for a moment and see just how quickly your mind begins to wonder.
Defensive actioning is usually self defeating, and a defensive mindset is usually closed.
Learning to quieten your drive to defend, by acting intentionally..
DEVELOPING A POSITIVE
Positive emotions are compellingly, advertisers have know this for years.
Eliciting the positive, and creating a compelling culture!
Whether within yourself, your children or your organization we look at how to raise resilience!
We need to feel we belong. We need to feel valued. We need to feel we’re good at something. We need to feel we have a secure future.